Starts with virtually all problems start with MUSTIBATION. This is a concept that is someone putting undue pressure on themselves by stating they must do something. Do not do this and you will feel great!
Book about psychology outlining a technique called rational emotive cognitive therapy (cognitive behavioural therapy is similar) written by the person who invented it. Contains a bit about reframing situations, for example think that someone may have done an action due to another reason to make you feel better. Outlines ways to challenge irrational beliefs and method for overcoming these such as don’t over generalise. Keep asking “what if” or “so what” and get exposed to the irrational fear(s) regularly.
